Thanks for proving my point and proving to be the patriarchal, judgemental human your parents raised you to be. This article is not about indian rules, it’s about immigration rules in America. If you failed to realize the goodness of the USA despite staying there, it is your loss. The USA or Germany or any developed land is much better than India. Thanks for abusing my whole family and my child rearing practices in one line. Where I raise my children or live is none of your concern. I do not need any man tell me that I lack self control. Exert your patriarchal influence in your own household.